Yes, I am giving you nothing but my utmost honest replies.

You really need to take negative feedback better.


And on filters:
Although i use them a lot in my work, i use more subtle, simpler ones like gaussian blur, noise, and occasionaly a few lense flares. They are flashy, addictive, and evil.

I agree fully. Family (and all friends too) are the worst possible places to go. I left some frank feedback at your Deviant page, as well as some pointers on your member page. Do yourself a favor and heed them.