tunnelcat wrote:shaktazuki wrote:Gee, are you saying you would take away his rights to participate in government? How does that make you different from what you rail against?
Look guys, the only thing I 'rail against' is the acceptance of bigotry, justified with religious beliefs, towards a small minority group and using government to sanction it and enforce it. That's all, it, zippo. You can have your religious beliefs, even preach them to others of your own free will, but they shouldn't be used to make laws that govern a
PLURALISTIC democratic society. Sure, there are laws in this country that have a religious base, but they are a benefit to the stability of society as a whole, laws against murder, stealing, etc.
That's just the point. Us religious fools (or bigots, if you prefer) feel, or even know, that the laws we propose benefit the stability of society as a whole, such as laws against divorce, adultery, incest, and so forth.
I just don't see how marginalizing the LGBT members of our society is beneficial. It's hurtful.
NAMBLA feels the same way. Do you know, they even have studies showing that sometimes, adult/kid relationships are beneficial to the kids?
But to the point: I suggest two books for a general case of regulating sexual behavior.
Degenerate Moderns: Modernity as Rationalized Sexual Misbehavior.
And, with specificity,
The Pink Swastika: Homosexuality in the Nazi Party. Full text available there.
I don't have the time nor inclination to summarize these books.
In any event, there exists a chain of laws which ultimately can be used to criminalize religion given the legality of homosexual "marriage." That alone is sufficient reason for any friend of liberty to "marginalize" homosexual relationships in the form of denying them the legal label of "marriage."
I put "marriage" in scare quotes for two reasons: 1, marriage is NOT a legal institution, but a religious one - the state has set up a parallel social institution called "marriage," and it is this similarity between the words used to describe both marriage and "marriage" which is the root of all this trouble; and 2, you can call a tail a leg, yet a dog still has four legs; calling a tail a leg does not make it so.
Last I heard, we are not a theocracy. If I wanted that, I'd move to Saudi Arabia or even Vatican City, if I wanted to live under a repressive, controlling government.
Neither of them are a theocracy, though both would no doubt claim to be. God leads neither.
Being female, that's what it would be like for me in those places. No thanks. I like my freedoms here (that we had to fight for in the 1960's) very much.
They had sufferage in Utah, without any fight, prior to their joining the Union in the 1800s; Federal law removed that right. But Utah was supposed to be the American theocracy, wasn't it? Maybe your perspective on religion is what is skewed.
Edit: Just this morning, my husband turned on the TV and while channel surfing, ran into an old episode of 'Leave it to Beaver'. The father had just got home from work and was waxing on about how the husband should have a meal ready for him everyday by his diligent wife when he gets home and be allowed to relax after a hard day at work before having to deal with problems at home. That brought back memories when I was a little girl. For some reason, the prospect of growing up and having to become a housewife slave, absolutely mortified me. In the 1950's, that's what was expected of women, no careers, no nothing outside of the home. This attitude towards women was definitely religious-based. All I can say for women is thank God for the 1960's!
[sarcasm]Divorce rates, teen pregancy, rampant sexualization of children, pervasive sexual immorality, drug use and its attendant problems such as murder, theft, sexual abuse of both adults and children, broken homes, and so forth, would no doubt be cause for generations yet untold to sing Hallelujahs to the 60s as well. Yes, I must admit, it is a great thing that you are not expected to serve your husband, as he is expected to serve you.[/sarcasm]
Your perspective does not seem to be focused on the benefit of society, in which one subsumes one's desires for the good of the whole, but rather your own personal benefit, power, and advancement. It is not the case that maximalized individual license is compatible with maximalized social stability and benefit. The 60s was indeed the "me" revolution, and, sad to say, that is the generation which rules this country; the children who learned from that bad example will rule next, and blood will be spilled globally because of it.